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MANAGING STRESS

The Malaysian Surveyor

    our reach, and this may contribute to           become second nature to flexibility    Conclusion-jumpers
    more problem solving episodes.                  by replacing them with more positive   can often fall prey to
                                                    thoughts and views.                    mind reading when
    Practice “awareness                                                                    they start to ignore
    and flexibility”                                 A little cognitive                      the good values of
                                                    restructuring can bring
    Those who personalise their stressors           significant change.                       others. It can be
    tend to blame themselves or others                                                      even worse if one
    for things over which they have                 W.M.A. Wan Hussin is a Professor        predicts negatively
    no control, creating unnecessary                at the School of Civil Engineering,    by ignoring the true
    stress. Avoid blaming themselves                Universiti Sains Malaysia. He           intention of others.
    for the actions of others, and don’t            conducts several courses on stress
    blame others for their own feelings             management and delivers public
    and mistakes. Try to recognise the              lectures and brain storming sessions
    cognitive distortion by loosening the           on management issues for various
    grips of these distortions and being            organizations. He is currently a
    aware of them. Once you become                  Licensed Land Surveyor, Member of
    aware of your patterns of self-faulty           the Association of Authorized Land
    thinking, you can begin to challenge            Surveyors (MAALS) Malaysia, Fellow
    these thoughts more and more                    of the Royal Institution of Surveyors
    by looking for sensible evidences               Malaysia (FRISM), a Malaysian
    and find alternate conclusions.                  Speaking Professional (MSP) of the
    With time and practice, challenging             Malaysian Association of Professional
    your negative thinking patterns will            Speakers, and can be reached at
                                                    wmabwh@gmail.com

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